Let me introduce you to the pitfalls of small group leadership by highlighting what not to do. I’ve seen and even done it all, so I’m not pointing fingers. But I am hoping that you as a small group leader will consider why such small groups aren’t best. I say it light-heartedly in love!
- As the leader, talk as much as possible. The group is a captive audience, so be sure to share with them all that God is showing you in your study of the Word. This will also show them what to look for as they complete their lesson for next week.
- Never allow silence. You can’t let people think you’re not prepared, and if they’ve done their lessons, they’ll all have answers to share. If no one quickly answers, jump in and tell them the answer. Soon they’ll let you answer all the questions. (See point 1.)
- Make sure the conversation is lively. As long as they are talking, even if it’s about yesterday’s headlines or Martha’s great-aunt’s back surgery, everyone will feel at ease.
- Cover every question from your study’s homework. This is important. Everyone needs to know the right answer, and if you don’t cover every one, how will they know whether they got it right?
- Never allow questions that aren’t specifically from your lesson. If someone asks a question she uncovered in her study time, immediately move on.
Well, hopefully we can all laugh and see how these five missteps really will lead to a terrible small group experience. We’d love to help you with your small group questions and equip you to have wonderful discussions that lead to lasting transformation. Check out our video resources here or leave a comment below.
